alendi - Human Givens - 7/11 breathing

Therapy - 7/11 Breathing

Introduction

We in the Western world seem to have forgotten how important controlled breathing can be to our mental and physical well-being. The following disciplines all place attention to correct breathing:

Yoga
Meditation
Tai Chi
Qi Gong
Martial arts

There is a particular form of breathing which can be a great help (no matter what state you are in) if you...

Feel depressed
Have difficulty sleeping
Have difficulty concentrating
Feel agitated or anxious
Suffer from "nerves" or anxiety

We often teach people this technique because it can be a powerful tool for recovery. See the testimonials.

To lower stress

The secret is to make each "out" breath last longer than each "in" breath. This has the effect of stimulating the body's natural relaxation mechanism. It stimulates the parasympathetic nervous system. A simple and effective way to do this is to use a simple counting method whilst paying attention to your breathing.

7- 11 breathing

Try this. You can do it anywhere - in bed, on a bus or the train, even whilst walking gently.

Count 1 to 7

First, count from one to seven on each "in" breath . . .

Count 1 to 11

. . . then, counting at the same rate, count from one to eleven on each "out" breath.

Why count?

Counting has the effect of distracting your mind so that it can't also be worrying or analysing stuff at the same time. It also helps to keep the "out" breath "half as long again" than the "in" breath. Note that you will have to breath in slightly "harder" and breath out "more gently" if you are not going to end up gasping for air!

How fast?

Find a breathing rate which is comfortable for your own lungs. It does not have to be particularly "deep and slow" breathing. The important thing is to keep the rate constant without getting out of breath!

This animated image (which may not work properly on an Apple mac) shows typical breathing speed.

How long for?

Most people find that 10 minutes a day of good 7/11 breathing really helps them. But it does take a little practice and needs to be learned as a new skill. It can be hard to keep count when you first start - but keep trying. You will need to concentrate quite hard at first - but it gets easier with practice.

I have been using this for several years and it is has now become natural for me. If I have any difficulty getting to sleep, just a few breaths is usually enough to send me off.

Use your imagination too

It can really help if you can imagine yourself in a place which feels safe and calm while you do this. Some people imagine being on a warm beach, some a cool garden, others by a gentle stream or walking in a wood or in the hills. Other people prefer to imagine being curled up in their bed. Whatever works best for you, try to bring in all your senses into this imaginary picture. Wherever you choose to be, bring in the sights, colours, sounds, feelings (e.g. sun on your skin), taste or smell of the place you are thinking of. Using all your senses, even just pretending, can really help your body and mind to relax. Some people have never experienced anywhere which feels safe or calm. This makes it harder - but there is often something which works, even if it is getting lost in a video game or a physical activity such as running. Your imagination is a powerful tool. Practice using it.

Why is this useful?

Every problem has at least one solution. Imagine that you are in a boat being tossed about by huge waves. These waves represent your emotions and feelings. Any strong emotion or feeling can have this effect: excitement, love, disgust, jealousy, anger, sadness, grief, anticipation, hatred, greed and impatience....

The effect of strong emotions on our mental state are like storm waves

But the solutions to the problems you are facing are like gentle ripples on the surface of a still pond.

The solutions to our problems are like gentle ripples

Notice that it is impossible to see the ripples (your solutions) while they are obliterated by the waves (your strong emotions). Only by calming our mind and lowering our "emotional arousal" can we start to think clearly.

Are you saying that emotions are bad?

No! - emotions are not bad!

Emotions are what drive us forward. Without feeling hunger we would forget to eat. In fact without emotions we would never do anything. Dictionaries in the 17th and 18th centuries described emotion in a direct meaning from the Latin derivation emovere (to move away from). However, in any situation, being aware of how and when our emotions and feelings affect us gives us many more options. It is important to realise that strong emotions can make us functionally stupid. When we are driven by anger, disgust or fear we tend to act on our instincts - without using our capacity for thought.

See the APET model for a description of how emotions can affect our behaviour without us being aware of it.

See the topic on pattern matching - patterns which get stuck for details on how emotional arousal can cause problems.

Is that all?

Please try this technique for yourself.

You may be able to follow these instructions easily. However, many people find it much easier to learn it from a person, face to face, rather than from instructions. We often teach this and other techniques during therapy sessions. We recommend trying it for yourself but don't give up if it seems too hard or seems not to work. Learning it face to face can be very much more effective.